She Changed my life

When my life was quickly falling out of my hands and reality wasn't within reach, I felt helpless. I needed to find a way out somehow, someone or something to influence me in a better way by helping me out of the major hole I had dug myself into. One day I have got someone lovely person, who had gave changing instruction of my life.

It all began when I moved away from my life in Chittagong University, and couldn't accept the fact that it was something my parents had to do. I was an emotional mess. I had much anger and no one to vent it on, except my parents, which, most of the time, was pointless. This would just end up being an even bigger mess. In my school life I was missing out on school without any reason! Sometimes planning on not going to school because I thought I had better things to do. As time passed, I began to miss many days of school. I have completed SSC from Achmita George Institution and HSC from Bangladesh rifles college under Dhaka education Board.

After secondary and higher secondary education I got admitted myself at University of Chittagong in Bengali language and literature; session was 1999-2000. I have completed BA(Hons) with great result. At 2003-2004 session I have completed masters from same department of same institution. After closing the education life, I have started my professional career as a sports reporter of daily bhorer khagoj. At 2007, I have tried to change my profession at education sector. February 22 of 2007 I have joined at Dhaka Public College as a lecturer of Bengali. But this job is not suited to me, I left Public college at august of 2007.

My heart was fall in love at 2004. My beloved person was come from southern district of Bangladesh. I got married her 19th April of 2008. After got marriage I think my life has changed. My fillings were that someone is running with me, I have to do everything with her priority. Because she leave her family with me and her life is circled with me. I have to response with her trust. I give myself credit for doing it on my own. I needed time to find myself more than anything, and here I am now, a senior.

Most Memorable Experience in My Life : When we got married we decide to wait a few years before having kids. We were young, healthy and both from very fertile families. So we were surprised when we tried a few years later that nothing happened. We tried for a year before we sought medical help. After a year of tests & guesswork, we were diagnosed with undetermined infertility. After trying one year the very next month we got the news of becoming parents. My son was born 3 weeks early. Date was September 29, 2012. His weight was 3 Kgs. WoW!!! It was amazing fillings! I was literally amazed. This tiny bundle of loose skin, bony knees and peach fuzz was mine. I had become a father at last! It was the memorable experience of my life. It was exhilarating! Everything is new again. Every day was a new adventure.

My personality, ambitions, and what I love doing should be the best criteria for defining my identity. One should never be worried if they do not know everything about themselves, as we are continuously learning and discovering new aspects of ourselves. Personally, I am satisfied knowing my friends value me and consider me an asset.