She Changed my life

When my life was quickly falling out of my hands and reality wasn't within reach, I felt helpless. I needed to find a way out somehow, someone or something to influence me in a better way by helping me out of the major hole I had dug myself into. One day I have got someone lovely person, who had gave changing instruction of my life.

It all began when I moved away from my life in Chittagong University, and couldn't accept the fact that it was something my parents had to do. I was an emotional mess. I had much anger and no one to vent it on, except my parents, which, most of the time, was pointless. This would just end up being an even bigger mess. In my school life I was missing out on school without any reason! Sometimes planning on not going to school because I thought I had better things to do. As time passed, I began to miss many days of school. I have completed SSC from Achmita George Institution and HSC from Bangladesh rifles college under Dhaka education Board.

After secondary and higher secondary education I got admitted myself at University of Chittagong in Bengali language and literature; session was 1999-2000. I have completed BA(Hons) with great result. At 2003-2004 session I have completed masters from same department of same institution. After closing the education life, I have started my professional career as a sports reporter of daily bhorer khagoj. At 2007, I have tried to change my profession at education sector. February 22 of 2007 I have joined at Dhaka Public College as a lecturer of Bengali. But this job is not suited to me, I left Public college at august of 2007.

My heart was fall in love at 2004. My beloved person was come from southern district of Bangladesh. I got married her 19th April of 2008. After got marriage I think my life has changed. My fillings were that someone is running with me, I have to do everything with her priority. Because she leave her family with me and her life is circled with me. I have to response with her trust. I give myself credit for doing it on my own. I needed time to find myself more than anything, and here I am now, a senior.

Most Memorable Experience in My Life : When we got married we decide to wait a few years before having kids. We were young, healthy and both from very fertile families. So we were surprised when we tried a few years later that nothing happened. We tried for a year before we sought medical help. After a year of tests & guesswork, we were diagnosed with undetermined infertility. After trying one year the very next month we got the news of becoming parents. My son was born 3 weeks early. Date was September 29, 2012. His weight was 3 Kgs. WoW!!! It was amazing fillings! I was literally amazed. This tiny bundle of loose skin, bony knees and peach fuzz was mine. I had become a father at last! It was the memorable experience of my life. It was exhilarating! Everything is new again. Every day was a new adventure.

My personality, ambitions, and what I love doing should be the best criteria for defining my identity. One should never be worried if they do not know everything about themselves, as we are continuously learning and discovering new aspects of ourselves. Personally, I am satisfied knowing my friends value me and consider me an asset.

I Will Change my Motherland!!

Everyone has dreams. Whether they be to become a scientist and discover new and amazing things, or become a star basketball player and be the highest paid player in the league, people dream about their future. I have dreams for the future just like everyone else. Dreams of the good life, with lots of money, hot girls, and fast cars! And I will do whatever it takes to achieve it. From my childhood I have a lot of future goal. But I haven't fixed my goal, After the Korea tour 2014 I fixed my future goal. I want to do something on basis of IT to change my motherland!!!

I have big plans for my future. I plan to make something of myself, and not to give up. I have a major fear of failure, and I won’t let it get to me. My parents expect a lot out of me, and I think I have done a good job so far. My dreams are what keep me going; they are an object for me to strive for. I will obtain that object one day.

I often wonder how my life will turn out. I have many dreams for my future, as well as many hopes and goals. There will always be many obstacles on my way, but I am going to have to think of some strategies for overcoming them. After all, life is all about happiness, and to be happy, I have to try to meet my goals.

Now my first goal is to complete Doctorate. My second, to further educate myself. The third goal I have set is to expand upon my leadership skills. Finally, my fourth goal is to be a role model for my employees and for my family. I am excited to have started this journey with a clear picture in my head of what I want my achievements to be. As stated in Keys to Success: How to achieve your goals "The pursuit of personal and professional goals gives your life meaning. Next, allow me to elaborate on each of the goals I declared above.

But now, after living life and surviving some defeats I realize that there are no guarantees in life except the ones we choose for ourselves. The only way to improve your life is to improve yourself. I think that once you begin this journey everything else in your life will seem to balance. There are many steps I had to take on this journey of self-discovery.

After the Korea tour I got the definition of the word 'Patriotism'. Most of the Bangladeshi Verbally want to probe he is a 'Patriot'! But we are not patriot; our goal is to do something for myself, not for my country. We want to do everything, but one person cannot properly do more than one thing. When I want to do many works in a time, I cannot do anything on that time. So my future goal is to skilled up in ICT and then I will forward to do something for my country. I think our education system is not ICT or modern technology based. I will try for a foreign degree in Instructional Design. If I get the chance, my goal will get his way. After completing this degree I will try to work for changing our traditional education system. If we want change our country, we have to change our education system. So my future goal is to do something to change our education system.

Our worlds are filled with life events that change us. Change can have many faces but we determine whether to embrace negatively or positively. I love the quote, “just when the caterpillar thought the world was over it became a butterfly” (anon).

Forgive and forget is not always possible in life. We are complex beings, with memories to learn from past situations and ability to apply knowledge to the future, altering the outcome through experience. It is innate in our created beings to remember but let us focus on the positive and be free from the grasp of negativity. Let us challenge ourselves to be the better person. Then we can pursue the best version of ourselves and not settle for a mediocre, washed down version.

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